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Failure is No Shame, Vaibhav Says in this FB Post to Others who Dread Board Exam Results

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'Don't hurt yourself, physically or emotionally. I am saying this as someone who rode the same wave that you are right now,' Vaibhav Jha wrote in his Facebook post. Failure is No Shame, Vaibhav Says in this FB Post to Others who Dread Board Exam Results
 
 
The day of board exam results often cause fear and tension and while many students pass with flying colours, there are the others, who 'fail.' Failure is a heavy cross to bear, and such is the pressure that students face, that reportedly, a 17-year-old from Mumbai committed suicide after his results. Which is precisely why, this man’s Facebook post is important. Vaibhav Jha, based out of Chhatarpur in Delhi, wrote from his experience that it’s okay to fail, because your Board results most likely will not decide how your life turns out to be.

Read the Facebook post here. 

“Confession Time!
I flunked in my 12th Boards. Me, coming from the Maithil brahmin ‘paida hotey he ladka hua toh engineer banega ladki hui toh doctor’ family.

I was almost abandoned by everyone around me. There was a constant cloud of SHAME, in bold, hanging out everywhere I went. Neighbours loathed me, parents hated me and the mother wouldn’t go a second without cursing her womb for carrying me, a failure, for 9 months. Like that thing comes with a display “fail hoga ye baaraveen mein, isko gira do doosra upload karo”.
My family didn’t like me. Or so I thought. In reality, they didn’t understand me. They didn’t understand that brainwashing a kid into taking up Science stream for a better prospect in the future does exactly that. I will be dead honest. I am an intelligent dude. I failed because I would do anything. And I mean ANYTHING to avoid studying. I would sit on the study table for three straight hours, making little balls out of papers and playing a mock football match to avoid memorising a Gatterman-Kotch reaction. And the results spoke for it. I failed. Boo fucking hoo.
Now, I wasn’t depressed. Because I knew that this was my doing. I didn’t want to study what was piled on me. I hated for my parents to be ridiculed by the relatives and others around so I kept at it. But it showed, the unpreparedness. The results came out and it was out there for the world to see. Vaibhav Jha has flunked his 12th standard CBSE Board exams. But what irked me, or rather, made it very amusing, was the fact that rather than my world coming crashing down (I was pretty cool about it. I knew what I had written in the papers afterall LOL :P), everyone else around me acted like I had committed a crime. Relatives who I to this date think are folklore and urban legends, who I have never even seen a picture of, all of them had something to say. And everything they said was underlining the sentiment of “Now this dude done fucked up and he gotta be grounded for possibly forever and made to sit in a small shop that his dad invests in or join a call-centre because dude can atleast spit angrezi because fancy public school”.

None of that happened. Nope. I decided that I will study a bit(I swear that was hard), cheat a tad, and pass my compartments. Kaisa bhi karkey. Tution masters who charged as high as 1500/- and hour (And this is way back) were summoned. They realised in a day that I simply loathed the subjects I was made to study, so to make sure my parents got their monies worth, they thought me innovative ways to cheat, or put a word to the invigilator in my centre so that he let me cheat. The world conspired to make sure I passed. I swear to god, the pressure was so much, that some dude told me that he could get me the question papers a day before the exams from CBSE itself and I needed to pay 25k a pop. So, me being a 17 year old, went to inquire how much a kidney sells for. No shit. I bought into the pressure too. So I know it gets to you. If it got to the cool cat that I thought I was, it ought to get to anyone.

Cut to today, the 26 year old me runs a small design/advertising setup and has worked with the biggest names in the business. I have marketed start-ups, Production-houses, Film Festivals, Feature Films, Restaurants, Hotels, Actors & Directors. You name it. I make a pretty decent living and so do the people that work with/for me. So, I pay salaries. Me. The dude who was scheduled to sit in a grocery store or a telemarketers chair. I know countless other folks like me. People who failed thrice! (OMG imagine how that would be) And they make 6 figures every month doing what they love. Don’t get sad. Especially if what you are studying simply doesn’t appeal to you. It is OKAY to not like what you study. It’s OKAY that you hate graphs and eco makes you react to gluten. It’s OKAY. It is just a passing phase. Don’t kill yourself over it. Don’t harm yourself over it. Don’t go screaming at the top of your lungs to your old man and woman, telling them off and blaming them for your failure. They didn’t do jack shit, really. They will shout and scream and call you a disgrace to the family. Well, that is standard Indian parenting, tho. But it will pass. I promise it will. No one gives two shits about your 12th std marks after an year.

ABSOLUTELY NO ONE! Trust me. I have interviewed people and I don’t understand the ones who write their 12th marks in their resumes. That shit doesn’t define the skills that you carry. All of us have a specific set of talent. Yours wasn’t getting a 90% in your 12th boards. Be thankful that atleast you know that much. Google about things that you think will make a legit career for you. Ask your friends. Talk to the girlfriend/boyfriend. But please don’t think of your failure/bad result as the end of the world. Your parents scream at you because they paid that tuition fee, boy. And it takes a lot of effort, making money. Avoid what they say. All the bad things that the Padosi aunty or door ki Maasi says, avoid that too. Channelize yourself into finding out that one trade you think you could master and do it. And if you fail at that, try again or find something else that’s caught your fancy. But live. Be willing to find what you might like doing. Life is beautiful if you want it to be. Give it a chance. Don’t hurt yourself, physically or emotionally. I am saying this as someone who rode the same wave that you are right now. It will be fine. Trust me. 
 

 

ICSE Topper Muskan is Overwhelmed with her Performance

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Pune: Muskan Abdullah Pathan, who topped the ICSE Class X examination with 99.4 per cent, is surprised and overwhelmed after checking the result online.“Until eighth standard, I did not even appear in the top five, but in the ninth standard, I stood first in the school. Thereafter, I started getting good marks,” said Muskan, a student of Hutchings School, Pune.

Muskan, a swimmer and a badminton player, is determined to choose a career in medicine. Born to professionals, she is determined not to be left behind. Her father Abdullah is a software engineer and mother Shakira a doctor.Muskan and Bengaluru’s Ashwin Rao have scored 99.4 per cent to top the ICSE Class X exam.
The ICSE had today declared results for both class XII and class X as girls once again outshone boys.Class XII saw a pass percentage of 96.47 while 98.53 per cent students passed class X.Kolkata Girl Ananya Maity has emerged as the class XII all India topper with 99.5 per cent and Punes Muskan Abdulla Pathan and Bengalurus Ashwin Rao have jointly topped the Class X exams with 99.4 per cent each.

ICSE (Class X) and ISC (Class XII) Examination, 2017, showed a marginal increase in pass percentages over the previous years results, said Gerry Arathoon, CEO of the Council.
 

Once Again a Fake Cow Slaughter Photo Used, This time by Kerala BJP Leader K Surendran, Willl no Action Follow?

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Yesterday,s enior BJP Leader from Kerala K Surendran posted a photo of slaughtered cows on his official Facebook Page. In this post, he claimed that cattle was being slaughtered in public places in Kerala. The picture is enough to make genuine animal lovers and cow vigilantes react, and even react violently. It depicts 5-6 dead cows on a sidewalk in a market place. Some people can be seen in the background and the shutters of all the shops are pulled down.

Following is the complete text of Mr K Surendran’s post.

Original text: സംസ്ഥാനത്ത് വിവിധ പ്രദേശങ്ങളിൽ ഇടതുവലതു യുവജനസംഘടനകളും മതതീവ്രവാദസംഘടനകളും നടത്തുന്ന ബീഫ് മേളകൾ തടയാൻ സംസ്ഥാനസർക്കാർ അടിയന്തിര നടപടി സ്വീകരിക്കണം. ബീഫ് മേളകളിൽ വിതരണം ചെയ്യുന്ന മാംസം പലതും അംഗീകൃത ഇറച്ചിക്കടകളിൽ നിന്ന് വാങ്ങുന്നതല്ല. പലയിടത്തും പൊതുസ്ഥലത്ത് നിയമം ലംഘിച്ച് കശാപ്പു നടത്തിയാണ് മേളകൾ നടത്തുന്നത്. ജനങ്ങളിൽ ഭീതിയുളവാക്കുന്നതും അരോചകമായ നിലയിലുമാണ് കാര്യങ്ങൾ പോകുന്നത്. പ്രകോപനപരമാണ് പല പരിപാടികളും. സാമൂഹ്യവിരുദ്ധരും തീവ്രവാദികളും അവസരം മുതലെടുക്കുന്നു. ദേവസ്വം വകുപ്പ് മന്ത്രി തന്നെ പരസ്യമായി ഗോമാംസം ഭക്ഷിക്കുന്നത് ലക്ഷക്കണക്കിന് വിശ്വാസികളെ വേദനിപ്പിച്ചിരിക്കുന്നു. മന്ത്രിമാരും ഉത്തരവാദപ്പെട്ട പൊതുപ്രവർത്തകരും ഇത്തരം ഭീഭൽസമായ സമരപരിപാടികളിൽ നിന്ന് വിട്ടുനിൽക്കണം. പ്രചാരണവും സമരപരിപാടികളും ആർക്കുമാവാം. എന്നാൽ ജനങ്ങളിൽ അവമതിപ്പുളവാക്കുന്ന ആഭാസസമരങ്ങളിൽ നിന്ന് ഉത്തരവാദപ്പെട്ടവർ പിന്മാറുന്നതാണ് എല്ലാവർക്കും നല്ലത്. തിരിച്ചുള്ള പ്രകോപനങ്ങളിലേക്ക് ദേശീയപ്രസ്ഥാനങ്ങളെ മനപ്പൂർവം വലിച്ചിഴക്കരുതെന്ന് ബന്ധപ്പെട്ട എല്ലാവരോടും അഭ്യർത്ഥിക്കുന്നു.

Rough Translation: The State Government should immediately take steps to stop the beef festivals being organised across the state by youth organisations of the left and the congress and some terrorist organisations. The beef being distributed in these festivals are not being bought from legal meat shops. In many places, the festivals are being conducted by illegal slaughtering of the cattle in public. Many of these events are aimed at inciting tension. Anti-social elements and terrorists are making use of this situation. Lakhs of devotees are pained because the Dewaswom Minister (who is in charge of temples) himself was seen publicly consuming beef. Ministers and responsible social workers should stay away from such horrific protest movements. Everyone is free to hold protests. But, it is better that people desist from participating in protests which will cause ill-will among the public. We request everyone connected with this not to drag the nationalistic organisations into countering this.

The issue of public slaughter has come into sharp focus after members of Kerala Youth Congress allegedly slaughtered a cow publicly to protest against the new beef ban rules by the Union Govt. This act was condemned by many including the Vice President of Congress himself.
 

 
Though one may agree with K Surendran in principle that animals shouldn’t be slaughtered publicly, and that safety norms should always be followed, the irresponsibility bordering on criminality here lies in the fact that the photo used by Mr K Surendran is an old photo and has got nothing to do with the wide-spread protests in Kerala against the Union Govt’s diktat. This photo has been used with misleading captions many times over in the past few years by many to further the cow vigilante cause.
 
For eg, one Subhasis Chakravarty posted this photo on 28 Oct 2011 on the Google Plus platform with the caption “COW slaughter in UP under the license of PRINCESS MAYAWATI , this way , in the open“.
 

A higher resolution picture of the dead cows can be seen here. As the commentator Krish Datta points out in the above image, the language on the boards above the shops is Bengali. With all the shutters down, it would seem like the shops are shut for a festival. These two facts combined would indicate that these could be Eid celebrations either in West Bengal or Bangladesh. Had cows been slaughtered in such a fashion in West Bengal, it surely would have been covered by the main stream media. However, no such news report was found in main stream media about such an incident in West Bengal. Most likely, this image is from Bangladesh. This image has been in circulation since before 2009 as can be seen in this WordPress blog.
 
 
 

Why Islamic State-linked rebels took over part of a Philippine city & Why 100 Deaths have not Made Headlines News

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The Guardian, UK reports how rebels linked to the jihadist have hunkered down in Marawi, with close to 100 dead following six days of clashes

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Rebels linked to Islamic State have taken control of several neighbourhoods in the southern Philippine city of Marawi, with army artillery and aerial attacks unable to completely dislodge them after six days.
At least 61 militants and 17 security forces have been killed, according to the armed forces. Nineteen civilians have died.

Tens of thousands of people have fled the city of 200,000.

Read the rest of the story here